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The holidays can be a hectic time. With all the shopping, decorating, baking and visiting with family and friends, quality time alone with the significant other can sometimes be put on the back burner. Sometimes when the freedom to be spontaneous rolls around, we aren’t always ready. We often hear about how men can be sure to be ready for personal time with their partner. But what about women? Thanks to K-Y® and #CollectiveBias for making this conversation about K-Y®’s line of personal lubricants for women, which can ensure happy and spontaneous holidays when #TheMoodStrikes, possible today.
How To Be Spontaneous With Your Partner During The Holidays
It can be hard to be spontaneous when everything can be so scheduled during the holidays. But there has to be some spontaneity in every relationship to keep the spark alive. So, here are some tips to keeping the spark alive during the holidays.
1. Send Your Partner An Out Of Character Text – Do you always text your partner the grocery list? That is necessary, but boring. I like to text my husband flirty messages while he is at work. Don’t worry, it doesn’t have to be anything too graphic. But, it can be lots of fun to send your partner a wink or slightly suggestive message when he is only expecting a reminder to pick up milk.
2. Sexy Gifts Don’t Have To Be For Valentine’s Day – Why does Valentine’s Day have the lock on chocolates, flowers and fun gifts? You don’t have to wait until V-Day to give your partner a romantic gift. Buy some new undergarments. No, not of the granny variety, either.
3. Make A Mix Tape – Well, CD. But still. How many people remember that scene from “Say Anything” with the boombox? My husband makes me mixed CDs pretty often. There are so many great songs out there than can practically get the job done for you! Ready for some spontaneous fun? Throw one of the CDs that you made with you and your partners favorite, date night songs and you will be ready in no time.
4. Coupons Can Be Sexy – No, I am not telling you to run to the store and buy 45 bottles of mouthwash – though remembering mouthwash during those intimate moments is highly appreciated by most. 😉 Make a sexy coupon book of “favors.” Let your significant other cash these in whenever he or she likes. This lets them be spontaneous while also keeping you guessing as to when you will need to pay up. What fun.
5. Invest In Some Personal Lubricant – Let’s face it, just like men, women’s sexual life changes as they age, too. You don’t have to let dryness slow you down though. With KY Liquibeads, you can enjoy the freedom to be spontaneous whenever #TheMoodStrikes. Just a little planning can go a long way.
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Sometimes we as women need a little help. I definitely don’t want the hubs to feel like I am not in the mood when I am. And I definitely don’t want to give him the impression that he is not doing a good job. 😉 I am sure most of you women feel the same way. So, don’t be embarrassed to get a little help if you need it. After all, intimacy is supposed to be fun, not something that makes you feel embarrassed or inadequate. Don’t let a little dryness put a damper on your spontaneity.
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Those are fun ideas. I will have to try a few,
It’s important to make time for each other year round, but especially during this busy season.
I just posted about this today. I think these are perfect for us older ladies needing to be spontaneous.
oh YES, this, exactly. It’s always better to be “ready”!
Love the tip of sending an out of character text! I may try that one.
The right mixtape is always good for setting the mood!
Great tips. I love sending my hubby texts through the day telling him how much I can’t wait to see him 🙂
I love your ideas! Going to try a few over the next few days and surprise my hubby! 😉
Definitely sounds like a great product for those nice alone times with hubby. I have not seen this one yet!
Great ideas! I’m gonna have to try a few of them. Fun!
Lots of great inventive ideas here! Thanks for sharing – many husbands will be quite appreciative! 🙂
WE all need these! Time to use these ideas! Get it ladies!!!
These are some really great ideas! Thanks for sharing them!
Spontaneity is awesome. Even more so when you’ve been married forever and a day like me. 🙂
It’s a good idea to do something out of character every once in a while. It keeps the spark alive!
Never hurts to take a little bit of time out to do something to make your partner smile.
It is so important to spend adult time together. We usually use our Sundays for our alone time since it’s the one day that hubby has off.
That is great that you have a day just for you every week!
Fun ideas….I htink it is so important to make sure your spouse knows you care.
These are some great tips. This is my first time hearing about the product though.
Ooh! La! La! Very nice post! We always talk about parenting but I rarely see posts about our relationships with our partners. Thanks for sharing these and will definitely take the tips!
I always look forward to the holiday season. It means me and the hubby get to spend some real time together. Can’t wait!
I was so good about gifting my husband little things until a couple months ago and I’ve totally fallen off the wagon. Not surprisingly, so has our sex life. I totally needed this little reminder! #client
Author is not married??