I Was Dying In A Hospital Bed And My Boyfriend Ghosted Me

I Was Dying In A Hospital Bed And My Boyfriend Ghosted Me

For any of you that are unaware of what ghosting means, it’s when your significant other basically falls off the face of the Earth. Essentially, you never hear from them again. Or they are done with you and don’t even offer you the courtesy of an explanation. Are they dead? Did they join a cult? […]

Is Traditional Dating Dead?

Is Traditional Dating Dead?

After an 11-12 year hiatus, I have been back in the dating pool for 5 or 6 months now. And I have to say, it’s been a rude awakening. Dating is so much different now than it was in my 20s. Sooooo much different. And, honestly, I am having a really hard time trying to […]

Online Dating And The Fallout Of Being Catfished

Online Dating And The Fallout Of Being Catfished

When I moved into the dating pool, it was after a sudden ending of a relationship I had been deeply involved in. Sadly, it was also a start and stop relationship. We’d be intensely into each other, then have a falling out, then try it again. When it ended, however, there hadn’t been any falling […]

I Was In A Controlling Relationship And Didn’t Even Know It

I Was In A Controlling Relationship And Didn't Even Know It

Last month I ended things with a guy who I had been seeing for a few months, on and off. I say on and off because that’s exactly what it was. We would be on one week, off the next. Constantly. It was really quite ridiculous and childish, looking back, and I am not quite […]

On What It’s Like Being Back In The Online Dating Pool At 40

On What It's Like Online Dating At 40

Since I have been single for a few months, I decided to give dating again a try. This might be weird for some of you reading this since you see Jay on here a lot. You might still see him here. We actually were some of the lucky few who had an amicable breakup. But […]