Is Traditional Dating Dead?

Is Traditional Dating Dead?

After an 11-12 year hiatus, I have been back in the dating pool for 5 or 6 months now. And I have to say, it’s been a rude awakening. Dating is so much different now than it was in my 20s. Sooooo much different. And, honestly, I am having a really hard time trying to […]

Online Dating And The Fallout Of Being Catfished

Online Dating And The Fallout Of Being Catfished

When I moved into the dating pool, it was after a sudden ending of a relationship I had been deeply involved in. Sadly, it was also a start and stop relationship. We’d be intensely into each other, then have a falling out, then try it again. When it ended, however, there hadn’t been any falling […]

I Was In A Controlling Relationship And Didn’t Even Know It

I Was In A Controlling Relationship And Didn't Even Know It

Last month I ended things with a guy who I had been seeing for a few months, on and off. I say on and off because that’s exactly what it was. We would be on one week, off the next. Constantly. It was really quite ridiculous and childish, looking back, and I am not quite […]

On What It’s Like Being Back In The Online Dating Pool At 40

On What It's Like Online Dating At 40

Since I have been single for a few months, I decided to give dating again a try. This might be weird for some of you reading this since you see Jay on here a lot. You might still see him here. We actually were some of the lucky few who had an amicable breakup. But […]